He’s Too Manly To Use the Mic – What Can You Do?

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“I don’t need to use the mic for my presentation,” bellows our baritone speaker. “I have a strong voice.” “Yes, of course you do,” I soothe him. “But please don’t be afraid to use our microphone.” Photo Credit: Jim Bahn Fear. Many times, fear is the reason why seemingly polished presenters balk when we request …

How much meat is too much meat?

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I like meat. Grilled, stewed, roasted — properly prepared, good cuts of meat are delicious. But when it comes to presentation, how much meat is too much meat? I was enjoying a friendly discussion with another meat-loving chum. We agreed that while the meat prices are very good at a local grocery store, we seldom …

Finding Hell in the Audience Poll

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“Hell is other people” is a phrase from one of my favorite plays, Jean-Paul Sartre’s No Exit. A classic existential line, I like to think that it means that other people make you self-conscious. Self-examination can be brutal. Hellish. When it comes to our own transgressions, we don’t like to acknowledge them privately. And we …

Which audience are you really addressing?

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“The real leader serves truth, not people.”  -J.B. Yeats You have many audiences, all at once. You have the audience that is in front of you as you speak. You have the audience of people that will hear about your message from the first audience. You may even have media coverage of your message, which …

How to stop a boorish Q&A Hog in 3 easy steps

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I recently attended a terrific, high-powered panel presentation that unfortunately became hijacked by what I’ll call “a Q&A hog.” You’ve probably witnessed a Q&A hog in action at a conference or presentation. Q&A Hog, defined: an annoying creature that rambles incoherently during the Question and Answer period of a presentation. The hog typically takes up …

Your final words: how NOT to close a presentation

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I asked folks on Twitter: “What’s the worst way to end a presentation?” My own personal pet peeve is ending with “Are there any questions?”  Q & A is such a weak & wimpy close. Regrettably, I hear it far too often. However, within 12 minutes of my Twitter query, I received even more brilliant …

My Guiltiest Twitter Pleasure: Favstar.fm

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OK, I’ll admit it. Very few days go by where I don’t check into favstar.fm. Why? Because I like a good grin. And I like to find humor in offbeat and unusual places. Favstar is like an underground Twitter subculture of frustrated writers and wanna-be comics. A Twitter companion site, you can simply go to …

Steal This Press Conference!

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Actually, the title of this post should be: “If you don’t like the news, why not go out and make your own?” The above question is a quote from “Steal This Book“, a social instruction guide written by Abbie Hoffman in the 1970’s. Hoffman was a master at getting free publicity for his causes in …

Top 3 Ways Presenters Can Make Sex Boring

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Let’s imagine that you’re asked to give a presentation about sex. Really! Your audience of adult coworkers are eagerly anticipating the fascinating insights you’re going to share with them in your one-hour presentation. I’m seriously asking you to imagine this. Go ahead. Giggle, blush, scoff —  but ask yourself: How might you prepare? What might …